I don’t know you guys, but some people love to think fully naked men with semi naked women as “equal”, which for me is stupid, they think semi naked women is naked-fallacy, fully naked women is the true equivalent of fully naked men, this video of naked equality art festival will raise you awareness of nude equality, enjoy 😉
[Credit To Author : Georgia Platts is the author of BroadBlogs. a Ph.D. from UCLA in sociology and teach soc and women’s studies at Foothill College in Los Altos Hills, California. also lectured at San Jose State University.]
Men aren’t hard wired to find breasts attractive?
And how do we know this?
The same way we discover that many things aren’t biologically-based. By learning about other cultures. And the breast fetish does not exist in them all.
Men and women both resist the claim until they’re reminded of tribal societies. We’ve all seen pictures from National Geographic. And we all know that among tribal people women’s breasts are no big deal.
By the mid-1980s, topless beaches and overexposure to nudity in advertising had a similar effect in Europe. Topless women were plastered all over billboards, magazine and television advertisements because both men and women looked. But by the mid-eighties, no one paid much attention anymore. It was all so blasé. European men studying in the U.S. asked why American men were so obsessed with nudity. What’s the big deal, they wondered.
Even men who are overexposed to porn can lose interest, according to Pamela Paul, who has studied porn’s effect on male sexual arousal. As one man put it,
“At first, I was happy just to see a naked woman. But as time has gone on I’ve grown more accustomed to such things.”
Now he seeks more extreme stuff.
Meanwhile, studies show that even women learn the breast fetish, with images of a nude woman creating greater blood flow to the vaginal area than images of a nude man. More on that later.
How odd. Breasts turn on Western women, but not tribal men? And hetero women get more aroused by a nude woman than by a nude man?
Fetishes are created by selectively hiding and revealing — making that which is hidden enticing. Both men and women become intrigued. (Women do experience all this a bit differently from men, which I’ll discuss later.)
Meanwhile, a student of mine lived in Iran after the Islamic revolution when women strictly covered themselves except for the face. She told me that every now and again she would pull her veil back a little and watch the men go wild over her “hair cleavage.”
In America around the turn of the last century even seeing an ankle was sexy because they were always covered. In some old family photos one of my grandmothers is pulling her skirt up above her ankle to look scandalously sexy. I couldn’t even comprehend what she was doing until someone explained.
Covering is captivating. If you see the same thing all the time, it’s no big deal.
We always hear that men are visual. This isn’t based in biology. Men learn to become visual, while hetero women are left with nothing acceptable to look at. Culturally, we don’t sexualize the male body.
The fetish feels real enough, but then, much of what is learned feels biological.
As we shall see, all this can heighten bedroom excitement. Or it can have the opposite effect. More later…
She Actually Already Dressed Very Mannerly But Still Become A Big Deal In Muslim Country Whereas The Male Can Even Wear Underwear Only At Public (Beach), That’s Contrast Double Standard
Where’s The Logic In Iran:
Women Bad Hijab (Actually Dressed Properly Full Covered) >> Make Muslim Society Get Mad
If Women Don’t Wear Hijab ( But Still Dressed Mannerly) >> Make Muslim More Mad
If Women Dare To Show Cleveage At Public (Still Dressed In Manner) >> Make Muslim Very Angry & Maddd
If Women Dare To Wear Bra At Public (Hei Still Covered Private Part) >> Make Muslim Loose Their Shit + Punishment
But If Situation Reverse, Even If More Worse Men wearing Underwear Only At Public (Beach)(Show Nipple, No Jeans) >>> Muslim Respond FINE #SexismFound
That’s Why It’s Bad If We Just Keep Silent And Tolerated The Intolerance And Sexist Ideology..They Can Make A Big “Sexist” Deal Over A Ridiculous Reasons. See Here To Know How Great Propaganda is https://darknesspinokio.wordpress.com/2014/07/21/hejab-as-weapon-in-islamic-iran-mirror/
I Hope We’ll Not Silence, Have Courage To Said What We Think Before It Too Late #LongLiveFreedomOfSpeech
Men can free topless anytime all the time right? if we are really equal don’t discriminate if women topless at public.
Both topless equally and seen each other top equally so how come some people said it degrade one gender only?
#StopDoubleStandard #equality #freethenipple
We Need To Stop Double Standard In Our Society, I Personally Don’t Believe Double Standard Even The Contrast One As Equal. No Favor A Specific Gender Only Either On Male Side Or Female Side, We Need To Start Treat Men And Women As Equal.
Agree W/ Her That Don’t Judge What Female Wear, In My Society If A Male Dress “inappropriately” Nobody Care But If A Female Just Show A Little Cleveage, Society & Media Can’t Stop Complaining. That Urges Me If We Want Equal Then Address Both Side Or Ignored Both Side Equally.
Credit to all who make this LIMITED video
If you watch, We can see from different angels of how inequality exists in this world by switching the gender role PERFECTLY! include topless women, pee in public & blame that ‘men’ for wear dressed inappropriately (btw i’m humanist and NDS-No to Double Standard).
So why we difficult to realize sexism, if the gender role are back normal? it is because we all already confirm with majority of people believe, we had been taught from we are kid that this kind of sexism are “normal” or “true”-which is not & We become ignorant about this sexism and follow it because it already become a system also usually we will get ridicule if we bring up this issues.
I can’t forced what i believe but i have rights to said what i think with my argument, because the opposed view itself are always propaganda their view to society especially my society.
So i must at least raised the awareness so that it will not easily control by the opposed view (religious / sexist view).
Thanks again for this France people who dare to make this WORTHY video. #ToplessEquality #NoDoubleStandard
You know i’m sick of my society because of their sexism acceptance, and one of them is about toilet
In my society like a mall you will find some of them put janitor room (cleaning room) in male toilet but that’s not problem, the problem is a female cleaning service can enter the men’s bathroom for cleaning purpose cause the janitor room’s inside male bathroom. If this female cleaning service enter male’s toilet during closed is still okay but this women (if they wish) can also enter when it still open where men are peeing and tolerated by my society, this PISS ME OFF. I don’t say this happen to all toilet but I have experience this several times like it’s okey for this women cleaner to enter male bathroom.
I remember when a feminist outrage on television about men disrespect women if that men enter female’s toilet and as usual society agree with that but WHY when the situation reverse female entered male’s bathroom is likely to be tolerated?
Most people on my society always agree that men who enter ladies toilet are perveted or sex offender no excuse for that but in reverse situation female that enter men’s toilet ?huh they always have an excuse for that women to enter. This double standard make me sick.
Well i don’t really know if there’s also janitor room on ladies toilet but assuming that men cleaner can also enter ladies toilet because there’s a janitor room what will he see? This
And in reverse situation if women entered male’s toilet what will She saw? this
Get It? Male’s bathroom have an urinal place means it have bigger chance to see “bird” if that female cleaner enter male toilet than vice versa.
And the worse is i also saw at some placed like cafee they put the urinal placed openly on corner, at first i thought “is this is real?” but fucking shit that was real because that mothefucker (whoever the fuck that made this) think this is cool if men piss openly and can be seen by women around there (because women never wrong and always innocent so it’s always okey) like all men species must learn to bravely exposed their body to women PUBLICLY! THIS is INJUSTICE, THIS is SEXISM towards MEN!!!! And I REFUSES to COMPLY!!!!!
Look, If this KIND of sexism happens towards women it’s easy to protest look train or bus for women only.
But if that sexism favor a women like in this case no matter how hard i explain i will be derided as sexist, people around me will say “oh that’s a small case why you get angry?” reverse the situation and they will think that’s a big issues….Funny.
So i read a comment from web of topless equality organization as you all know i personally support topless equality or shirtless equality because i hate double standard, accepting double standard for me means make a sexism that exist become invisible and more difficult to make a change. Okey so in the web that i read there’s a support and contra comment about topless equality and i picked up the contra comment that i find need to be debunk okey so let’s start and enjoy.
This comment from Kerry ***** II, his comment really pissed me off because he don’t know what equality is and act like he was smart..also he made some rude comment, here were 2 of his comment
Kerry ***** II Rape and sex with the same sex are emotional immaturity – one needs control and the other never fully developed, respectively. I’m just here to see the tits – otherwise there is a time and place to expose what only your lover should be seeing. Women keep pressing that they have a right to inflame men’s passions without some sort of repercussion. And yes – ALL humans are emotionally diseased. Again – since I don’t have a girlfriend I am just here for the tits – I’m actually in Ukraine right now and women that go topless on the beach get the most attention from both men and women (for different reasons) – SO they are also mentally diseased for purposely teasing men and for intentionally making women appalled (see ‘Games People Play’ book). A proper time and place and reason to bring out the puppies – otherwise don’t distract me with those things unless you’re going to share them, and satisfy me (not necessarily with sex either – I stopped that in favor of getting swallowed via safer oral sex method until after marriage = never because ALL humans are mentally diseased/never satisfied – see Judas Priest – ‘We are Never Satisfied’).
I will not respond all of this comment but comment that bothered me, he said i’m here to see the tits otherwise there is a time and place to expose what only your lover should be seeing okey this men are pesimistic about topless equality he try to shame and sacarsm by said he just come here to see the tits that actually can be only seen by their lover-husband, here is my answer women that support gotopless know it can happen-men see their breast, but the purpose is not for objectfying themselfes but to have equal freedom that men can get and not all men are like Kerry that can’t respect women who want to get equal rights to gotopless, some men like me support this and will not staring abudantly to their breast. Also if we legalize topless equality it will become “normal” and most men will not see that as sex object…but there’s a risk when some people like Kerry who’s brain made of stone and always want to see tits abudantly because he think he was right.
Then he said Women keep pressing that they have a right to inflame men’s passions without some sort of repercussion, what i get from here he mean this women try to inflame men’s passion without realize there’s a risk of topless in public or teasing men but don’t want to get the risk. My respond is at this time to make a change is not easy when we try to make a change (legalize women topless), there’s some or most people that don’t agree because they always perceived breast are sexual and because they are majority, they think they are right means this kind of confidence believe make more difficult for topless organization to make a change without a risk but doesn’t mean topless equality are impossible it’s possible the real problem is how we perceived this topless equality because men have ability to control themselves (statement from female psychologist) and we need process in making a change.
Next he said A proper time and place and reason to bring out the puppies – otherwise don’t distract me with those things unless you’re going to share them, and satisfy me Don’t you think Kerry try to said he have rights to “play” some sex if women go topless at public? Then he continue not necessarily with sex either – I stopped that in favor of getting swallowed via safer oral sex method until after marriage i don’t know folk but what he wrote was digusting so he wants to get oral from women who fight for topless equality because he was horny? Facepalm also to rude comment about oral sex at this non-sex web, there’s a time for sex but there’s a time to respect women’s rights or equality, this what i said this kind of believe that make this movement difficult to flow.
Then his second comment
Kerry F**** II because women aren’t tryng to suck a man’s nipples (or other body parts) like men want when the see any bare part of a woman, especially if it is otherwise against a particular society’s ‘norms’. I know even Ukrainian men (I am from US) look at bare-breasted women on the beach too long – then women feel uncomfortable or are into it for the tease aspect. Maybe when women are just as aggressive as men then going topless or nudity won;t be such a big deal (problem). I know if I would walk around with my genials half-showing I would be arrested – yet women are allowed and even encouraged by complicit men (not law enforcement).
Women don’t try to suck men’s nipples? Wrong i have experience watching porn and i found many women love with men’s nipples if you know what i mean.
Also he try to said in this comment >> look if women topless we will objectified you, my answer i think if women want to topless, men can see breast of course but there’s 2 type of men; men that respect equality and look at breast not too long plus without thinking of sex and the other type are people that believe men are perveted people that can’t see breast without objectfying it . Also actually both men and women love to see their opposite gender’s top but what i found difficult are streotype that we get from child that “men love to objectified women ” .
This person really pissed me off, Genital are not equivalent with boobs! How can it become equal if men exposed their chest plus their penis means exposed men ass too while women only topless- naked men and topless women aren’t equal , How can it become equal if women see penis plus men’s arse while men (not mean to objectify) only see women topless that’s not equal at all! And we encourage gotopless because men already can topless at public!!! don’t twisted it to “if women topless men should naked” this statement is stupid then if women can naked men what? masturbate? to be touch? So that’s why we support this movement for true equality, OMG tapioka brain! This was because of ideology that only women should be shame of their body… next,
Dave **** ive said it once, and ill say it again, women are arguing over nothing. men are only allowed to be topless on the beach and maybe on their property/neighborhoond. men still need to cover up at stores/schools. women are allowed to wear basically nothing as it is on beaches, and if they want, they can go to nude beaches too. I consider guys who walk around shirtless to be trash anyway.
Well i don’t know Europe, America or other Western law about “obscene” but from what i know if women topless at public people will automatically labelled her as whores and can get to jailed and maybe some placed like in stores men can’t topless but it will tolerated if he did while women still can get arrested if even topless at a beach.
That’s all for this LLAATEC part 1 and i will fight to make a change! Stranger you can follow this blog and read my other view that support topless equality, Thanks!
Now my article is about to debunk the comment from people that don’t support true equality. Yes In this article i will take random comment that i have found annoying from person that don’t like true equality maybe they are religious person , bigot of double standard culture that live in their comfort zone and so on. Let’s Start:
This comment is from anti Femen – to be honest i’m not crazy to Femen but i like their ideology of equality where if men are free to do with their body women should too. Also i found this comment really must be debunk. From Zoe Lucy:
“Please tell me how exposing your breast to general public acts as “weapons”? i means come on let be honest all the guys are to busy looking at your tits to actually care what you says. Why not use your voice to express your concern? Do your breast have magical power to help install your messages into people brains? And as one of my friend says”is it the bigger breasted you are , the more people will listen? And the smaller breasted then no one cares? Infact why stop at the breast? Why not get your vaginas out too? Lol. You are not empowering women at all. Infact you are a disgrace. Puts your tops back andcampaign the hard way and stop selling your bodies. Ps Muslim women are VERY capable of speaking for themselves and we do not need your nipples to do that for us, Over And Out”.
My first problem with her comment are she said men are too busy looking at femen tits and will not care Femen’s message; so this women thinks men’s brain only think porn , and she generalized all men always seen women bodies as sexual. That’s wrong statement, not all men are like that men can see women bodies not always as something sexual and men can respect women bodies ! but the major problem’s in many society women’s body are often seen as something sexual which cause most of men see women’s breast as something interesting or sexual. Hide is captivation, the more women‘s breast are always hide at public, the more it become captivating .
Also why femen bare breast ? because they ideologies are women body are equal with men so no wonder if they bare breast also to catch attention to spread the messages easily.
Then my other problem is she said ‘femen are not empowering women at all, infact it disgrace’, Hmm i don’t agree what Femen do can change society’s perception of women bodies by bare breast. And also why disgrace, why when women exposed their body that women is always labelled as a slut? but when men do it it okey? I either love that both gender can exposed their body without any labelled or both gender must be labelled for true equality.
And it’s always questioned me why society think it’s immoral if men see women breast at public but when the situation reverse it’s okay for women to see men bare chest . if some people said by forbid men to see women breast respect women why not women respect men too by not seeing men bare chest. And you must not think all muslim women are happy by hijab some of them don’t like it but they are intimidated by their society.
Second comment from Yves, he said
“men should be actived for same cause as well ( like femen ), their weapon : DICK”.
I always hear this kind of statement , i also once hear this kind of statement but in Muslim version they said women not wear scarf ( showing their hair ) same like men showing their penis, so do you get something wrong there LOL! The problem is women bodies are always seen as sexual and men bodies are always seen less or even not sexual at all which is double standard and unfair.
If you asked me if women show their breast would you show your penis ? my answer is NOT . because it ‘s not equal if they just show their top and i show my genitalia, i will just bare chest . But if women can naked at public i don’t have problem naked too . do you get my point? Compared genitalia with genitalia not with other part! That’s TRUE EQUALITY!!
Okey that’s all i want to say also i will always made this kind of article on my Blog again, Peace.
On 4 April 13 is the International day to support Amina . her body belongs to her not honour of everyone else.
This is a chance and step to make equality from crazy double standard that Islamist made, for everyone who read this support Them.
“If i had breast , i’d bare them in solidarity with amina. Those women who are doing so are heroes. Support Them “ Richard Dawkins