So this happened when i was young, but i just want to give an example of what i say double standar objectfication. Year ago i went to camping with my academic group. I went there for about 3 days, actually we are having fun there but again i found sexism there which i have already predict can happen and really happened and even worse.
Okey in this camping there were two tend for male and female student. Each both men and women can go to another tend of their opposite sex, fair enough for me. So the case happened at night i just take a bath after activities and went to my male tend and i saw there’s a group of female student on male camp playing and chating which other male which i don’t recognize really well who they are because this camping activities entangle large group of people from my academic, and many other male student in that camp busy with their activities-playing guitar, singing, playing card, eating, chating etc. So suddenly a man – from group where a male and female student combine in male tend, gained an attention, he started to ask the female to closed their eyes because he wants to change his pants, yeah and he did it changed his pant with a female beside him but this is not over, other male – 3 or 5, started to asked the female to continue to closed their eyes because this 3 or 5 men want to change change their pants and underwear too. At first i think this guy are just joking but HELL they really did it 3 or 5 male started to changed his underwear near the female student and make a joke if this women want to see it-penis and ass that really astonished me when this group of guy easily change their underwear and even naked with female friend beside them and other male that saw it just laugh at it like it was something normal.
Now i will explained why this cased really really pissed me off. First this is not a porn star who went for camping this is normal camping still count as public place so if a male student dare to bottomless – not using underwear and even naked beside a female student, for me it’s obscene make it more worsed are other male that see that only cheering and laughing. Second it’s not about whether that female student see male’s bottomless or not but the double standard perception. can you imagine if the situation reverse? No even the reverse situation will never ever happen ! but if it still happen, just imagine If a group of female bottomless in their tend with male student beside it, what happen next can be predicted first other women started to covered that bottomless women & it will labelled either as a female sexual harrasment or degrading women but since it was the men who are naked they think it is something normal and just a prank! Also i repeat in my Asia culture this kind of reverse situation will never ever happen ! female will not do it – changing clothes with a male friend near her, So this is really double standard!
Third to be more specific, female in my culture are sensitive they don’t like showing their bodies to a men, even something that’s actually not obscene are forbid by women like men are the predator. but in reverse situation the male easily and often show their body to women at public even if it already obscene (ex men naked) still tolerated even see as something normal or prank by my society, means society see women use sexy wear as something very taboo and degrading women but in reverse situation even if men already naked are still okey or seen as prank or normal by my fucking society.
Look i have no problem if women don’t want men to see her bodies but i protest to the double standard perception from my asia culture. i really emotional but i can’t suddenly angry at there even i have a my own reason because i will be only looked like a douchebag when i do that or maybe i get a punch too, So i wrote this here on my blog for everyone who read this to know my reason and i hope at least there are men who will become aware of this objecfication double standard. That is all i want to said thanks for reading.