Before we go to my headline topic first i want to tell you something what i think, that is men get easily aroused by women bodies is because of social construct and is assumed naturally sexually arousing , this included breast. Confused? Let me explain my reason , in modern societies breasts is viewed as sexual and maybe most of men will turn on by seeing women breast but doesn’t mean it biologically-based, if you see in tribal societies a topless women are not a big deal there. They see it (breast) as something normal. And in reverse situation in Muslim country men ussually turn on just because they see women hair or neck and that’s why Muslim society assumed 99% of women bodies are sexual. Why this happen? Because it is HIDDEN from public , Yes the more less we see the more we interested on it. That is fetishes, what is hiding whether it is breast , leg , or even hair make men or women become more intrigued.
In Bali around 1930 it’s okay for women to be topless at public and it’s normal, if you see on youtube documentary both men and women just do they routined activity there even the women are topless because they have accostumed by that but now topless women are illegal there so when a women topless there maybe men will get aroused. Even In America around the turn of last century seeing an ankle was sexy because they were always covered and now in America seeing ankle not something arousing right? When i was young and never see nudity i easily aroused and turn on when seeing picture of nude women , i must masturbate but now i don’t easily turn on by picture of nude women i can control it ( still i respect women bodies ). Now i can perceived nudity as something natural not always something sexual anymore, depend on what’s the situation and my willingness.
So Female breast or other women’s body parts are viewed as sexual or not depend on the culture . i believe Media and government plays an important role in the way that women breast or other parts are perceived. Covering is captivating , if you see the same thing all the time, it’s not a big deal. I repeat the more body part is hidden the more likely it become WOW when it come to revealing.
Now back to topic, i want to tell you what’s sexism according to my point of view. Okay, folks please dont never ever to except double standard on your society as equality . i don’t believe in double standard. Especially when it come to how society forced what you must do with your body, if you are women you must covered this and that blablabla, if you are men just covered this and you are free and then they said it’s equal. NO! They are wrong folks! men and women both are natural human bodies, both of them born naked so they must be treated fairly like i have explain on above paragraph it’s all a social construct whether breast fetishes or even hair fetishes in Middle East. I more likely to except both of men and women can naked in public than one of the gender are free to wear what they want and other is not. Oh and don’t say its small useless thing, because when a good women used sexy clothes or exposed breast ,society will just view her as a whores even she is not , and maybe she can be punished too or some men can feel oppresed why always wrong, immoral and forbid to see women bodies in public even as something natural or women’s beauty ,society will just think that men as ‘bad or harrasser’, Me for example.
Okay maybe you will said that “i don’t agree with what you said there’s no valid evidence about your social construct or breast fetish”. Yes this is not a sciencetific blog and i will not forced you to agree with what i think. But even if my opinion is not valid i still believe equal treatment to both men and women ,why? Because even if it is true men are biologically-based easily aroused by women bodies it’s still not fair if women can easily see men bodies whereas men are not ,or women that exposed her body is a bad girl but it’s okay whenever boy do it. Biological-based is not the point to except double standard as equality. Think out of box men have an ability to control their desire too even if breast are fetish and they can accostumed. you can see on some place in Europe for example. So women have rights too to gotopless or if a women want to covered it’s not problem for me. but please make an equal law, men must covered too! because it’s unfair if in my society women are acceptable to see men bodybuilder or male criminal using only underwear on television even make jokes at it whereas in reverse situation it will never ever happen! Even media will just censored if it is exposing women bodies , even when men see just a women breast’s line it can be count as objectified women in my society. that’s injustice !! That’s why i hope either both of the gender must covered their body part equally or expose it equally in public for true equality.
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